Jonathan's Marital Tip du Jour: #9

Don't buy into the disempowered "accidental" language of relationships: "We fell in love..." "We grew apart..." "We fell out of love...". Or as someone told me once, "You're so lucky." Lucky my eye! We've worked our butts off for this relationship. Be purposeful and proactive: GREAT relationships don't "just happen" — they are created.

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