"Train hard, fight easy. Train easy, fight hard."—Military saying.
This military saying is also true in relationship work: Do the hard work of getting trained in relationship skills and then practice, practice, practice. Conflicts then become much easier to manage and resolve, and the results are easy to live with. Don't learn the skills and don't practice then the conflicts are not only hard they are hard to live with the aftermath.
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