If you know me you know I love making big deals out of things. Why not create a memorable moment? Why not go the extra mile to make someone feel extra special? So, of course, as the romantic sap I am I love to see these over-the-top proposals. My only counsel to this, and any couple, is just make sure the time, thoughtfulness, care and planning that goes into special days like proposals and the wedding also carries over into the every day, into the hard days. Use these special days not just for excitement and fanfare, but as a symbolic gesture and reminder of "how much I will invest in you even in the mundane and normal days of our life, marriage and family together."